Stop Early Ejaculation

Being good in bed is not something that comes natural to most men. Even people who think they are good in bed, probably no more than mediocre. Sexual activity is essentially a skill and like any skill requires practice, skills and knowledge.

In this article I am going to explain the basics of what it takes to be a great lover. Forget about having a good lover, it's about, great. Something most men, unfortunately, will never experience.

1. Before anything, you should be in control over ejaculation. Without it, none of the other issues things. If you can not control your ejaculation you will not even be able to do anything else.

Ejaculation control is the foundation for being good in bed. You have to get this problem taken care of before you try to improve something else.

2. Now that you have control over ejaculation, it's time to fine tune your sexual activity even more. The next step is to learn how a woman's body works and how to "work" it.

When it comes to satisfying a woman, remember, these 6 things:

* Prelude (for her) - you should never go directly on the floor. Always nice to spend 5-15 minutes of foreplay. Women need more time to warm up, and they are a good rhythm, so it's a good way to get her aroused and ready. Drawing up and kissing her neck while playing with her breasts, and going to the south of the fingers or tongue, is usually enough (in that order). If you are a prelude whether it will be very excited and can not wait a moment for you to go inside.

* Rhythm - Although women differ dramatically in their sexual preferences, there is one thing that is common among all of them. Rhythm. Women need a good rhythm to orgasm. Change of pace and speed is too often only going to make it take longer to climax, and make the experience less intense and less pleasant.

Here's the correct rhythm for most women:

Start slowly. Slowly work up to medium pace. Continue increasing the speed until you're in a fairly rapid pace. When you can say that it is nearing a climax, increase the speed even higher than the maximum or close to it. It works every time. If you stop, slow down, to go too fast, or change the rhythm, you just ruin it and go back to square one.

There is a rhythm that can be done, but it will require more effective control over ejaculation, because it takes more time:

Basically, do the same thing, but when she starts to get very close, a little retreat in the medium pace. You will then need to get it to him again and again. Continue to do this 3-10 times. The fact that this type of rhythm makes her excitement build even stronger, which leads to EXPLOSIVE orgasm. Ensure that it is okay with that, first, as some women prefer a normal rhythm.

* Party shows - It's very easy to make sex more enjoyable for her, if you're doing other things to her while in the act.

Here are some examples:

Playing with her clitoris during lovemaking can send her into first place in the shortest possible time.

Kissing or caressing her or her breasts while making love at the same time can be a major turn on.

Last but not least, use your voice. Tell her how good it feels, or talking dirty. Of course, women have different opinions and preferences about what they want out of your mouth, but you should be able to get a good idea based on what type of girl or think. Some women are just dirty talk, and others like him, loving and sensual, and many, like something in the middle. It's good to start in the middle range so you do not hurt her or go too far.

* Emotional connection - In order for a woman to enjoy sex and orgasm, she should feel comfortable and connected with you. It does not need to love you or have emotional feelings for you, but it needs to feel connected and comfortable with you. Emotional feelings can definitely help, though.

* Anatomy - You should know where the woman's erogenous zones and how they work in order to properly accommodate them. The three major ones clitoris, breasts (especially the nipples), and G-Spot. The clitoris is at the top of the vagina over the entrance. G-spot is located about two inches deep inside the vagina on the upper wall. I hope you know where the chest.

How do you work them? All of them can work with your penis, fingers or tongue (except for G-Spot is difficult to achieve with your tongue).

Working properly in fact, required to do the same thing that I've already covered. The most important thing you need to have a good rhythm. With regard to G-Spot, you can angle your penis up to hit it better. In terms of intensity (amount of pressure) and technology, do not be afraid to ask her. Every woman is different, and so prefer different things. A good way to start is to go with a low intensity and work up to medium strength. Then you can go harder, but do not go overboard. This will be a good time to ask ... "Do you want me harder baby"?

* Respect - In order for a woman to enjoy sex, she should feel respected. It is very important to respect her preferences and make her feel comfortable. It can make or break your performance.

As I said at the beginning, it is necessary to gain control over ejaculation, you are nothing. It is absolutely necessary to become a truly great lover.